Life

  • Good riddance!


  • Alone

    It’s Friday, 9/22/2023. I’m so glad the work week is over. I’m so glad that driving around chauffeuring my son and getting food for my son and myself is over. And yet, I’m not really glad. It’s a Friday night, and I’m alone. I’m sitting in a Japanese restaurant, waiting for the waitress to come…


  • Well intentioned advice implicitly denies one’s processing of feelings

    My 20-year old son messaged me with his brilliant insights he’s gaining in the world. Something that’s been resonating with me as well. So I’ve decided to write about it here. Growing up, I heard a lot of well-intentioned advice – “Ignore him. You’re the better person.” or “Take the high road.” or “Don’t be…


  • Dating is hard

    Why does it even bother me? So he rejected me. But I wasn’t even emotionally invested in him. But he was definitely a guy I was finally physically attracted to and seems to be a put-together guy. I think I was excited to date someone like that and not a broken man. But sadly he…


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